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Thursday, May 01, 2008

Back from Istanbul

As I wrote in an earlier post, I had to go to Turkey for a business trip. At first I was a little bit scared. Foreign culture and all that stuff. But now that I'm back I must say it was a real pleasure. And our business partners were very nice. We spent most of the time with two people from the Turkish company we were visiting, and they also invited us for dinner every night and showed us the beautiful city after work.

I took many pictures, but with my cell phone. But my co-worker took some with his camera and he will send them to me. I might publish some more as soon as I get his.

On the first and second picture you can see the area where our hotel was. And here we also had our first lunch, and the first traditional Turkish food. Yummy!


I had eggplants and Kebab (like turkish BBQ). For dessert we had candied fruits with a very thick and sweet milk cream. At least I thought it were fruits. But it turned out it were candied olives, eggplants and tomatoes. And also candied whole walnuts (with the shell, by the way. Yes, you can eat it when it's candied).


Then we drove to the Bosporus and had a coffee at this place. By that time we and our host were still like strangers. You know, these awkward silent moments when you think you should say something, but can't figure out what.


But that changed very soon. On the next picture you can see Hüseyin and Gökçe. They were our fantastic hosts and the people in the Turkish company we discussed everything. After a short while they felt like very good and close friends. They were really amazing.
Our workdays were very productive and efficient, but after work they were like good friends.


Here we went out together with their friends, and I'm fortune telling to Osman by reading his coffee grounds. It was a very funny evening and we laughed so much that my cheeks were hurting.


Ok, some tourist stuff. This is inside Hagia Sofia (Ayasofya Camii Müzesi). 1400 years ago it was the most important ortodox christian church, later it was the most important islamic mosque. And today it's a museum. It was the largest cathedral in the world for nearly a thousand years, until the completion of the Medieval Seville Cathedral in 1520.


Inside Hagia Sofia you can find Christian and Islamic symbols, which looks quite uncommon. Here for example a mosaic with huge parts made of gold.


This is Hagia Sofia from outside. Unfortunately it was raining that day.


This is inside the Blue Mosque, which is also quite famous for Istanbul, but it's still a mosque.

This is outside of Blue Mosque.


This is Blue Mosque from a distance.


That was the view from my hotel room in Kadiköy, which is on the Asian part of Istanbul. Istanbul is the only big city that is on two continents. Our hotel was on the Arabic part, not the European.


This is a famous breakfast area in Istanbul. At least that's what Hüseyin said. We had a very nice brunch on Saturday right at the sea, together with some friends of our hosts.


This was on the market. Which was also very impressive.


Here is a picture from another part of the town.


It was a very pleasant trip and we had a fabulous time (well, except the sweet custard-like dessert that also contained chicken breasts, called Kazandibi). In fact, they want me to come down for two weeks in May to finish the project. And I'm actually really looking forward to that. I hope it's gonna happen. They also tried to hire me for good. "Write down what you want. House, car, office, ... you'll get it". I was laughing. "That's not a joke. I'm serious. Just write it down ..."

Monday, April 21, 2008

Today's song

I feel shitty
oh so shitty
I am icky, too picky, and gay
And I pity
Any guy who feels like me today

I am boring
oh so boring
It's alarming how boring I can be
and so shitty
that nobody likes to spend life with me

Lalala la la la lala

See that ugly dork in the mirror there?
(What mirror where?)
Who can that fatso be?
Such a shitty face
Such a shitty dress
Such a shitty smile
Such a shitty me!

I'm rejected,
so rejected
I'm neglected, dejected, alone
And nobody
Wants a date with such a moron.

Saturday, April 19, 2008

Coverboy Contest

Today there is a Coverboy Contest for our Magazine. In a beauty pageant like event the 15 hottest boys of all applicants will compete to be on the next cover of our magazine.

I'm looking forward to seeing the swim wear round. :-) A jury and the audience will decide who will win the photo shooting. I'm really excited, since I'm one of the three jury members. And there will be a show with drag queens, singers and other stuff as well. I hope it'll be a nice evening.

Thursday, April 10, 2008

Happy Birthday, TheGuy

Today is the Birthday of someone who is very important for me. Unfortunately we haven't been in touch for a while. But I think of him at least once a day and I miss him so much. I never wanted to post a picture of him to protect his privacy. But I found this one taken in Paris at the Banks of the Seine (which have been added to the UNESCO's list of World Heritage Sites) in the late night (the chubby one on the right is me, by the way). The quality of the picture is very poor because it was so dark, but that's kinda supposed to be like that. It will still protect his privacy, but reminds me of a wonderful time together with him.

The two weeks in Paris with TheGuy last summer were absolutely amazing. If I could turn back time ...
But TheGuy might be here again this spring/summer, and we've already been talking (long ago) about a Paris 2.0. That would be great. I will call him later today because of his birthday. I hope we can figure out a plan to meet again soon.

Lesson for today: a black T-shirt and black jams make you almost invisible at night. For better invisibility use long sleeves and trouser legs.

Sunday, March 23, 2008

I am dreaming of a White Christmas Easter

Christmas Eve is the most important part for children of German Christmas celebrations. It's the first day with the X-Mas tree in Germany, and the perfect X-Mas Eve is a white X-Mas, with snow. When I was a child, Christmases usually were white. Alas, I think the last 15 years have been without snow.

However, today is Easter Sunday. Perfect would be green grass, daffodils, tulips and sunshine. Yesterday was cold, but no snow. The picture has been taken this morning. It really was a big surprise for me.

I guess Easter is much more important in Germany than in the USA. It's also a big holiday with presents and good food. And of course with huge family gatherings. Since I overslept last Christmas sick and with high fever, this feels much more like Christmas today. And for the rest of you without snow: Happy Easter!

Friday, March 21, 2008

First Day of Spring

The Spring-Queen wishes everybody a marvelous and delightful spring and Happy Easter Holidays!

For the curious ones: This picture has been taken on last year's gay pride in Stuttgart, in July 07. I like the raw manliness punctuated by the lei, and the masculine hand posture. We alpha-males really are the butchest. ;-)

Sunday, March 09, 2008

System.out.print( life.getChanges() );

So many times I'm thinking, "this would make a good blog post". But I never find time to actually post it. So here are just some fragments of the topics that would have served as single posts...

Work is quite strange recently. There was a re-organization and we have to leave our nice office and move to another building that isn't equally nice anymore, and our space is taken over by another department. And some of my former office neighbours are moving to different buildings, I'm transferred to another unit to new co-workers and my boss will get her baby soon and will be on leave and everything changes. So I'm curious what the next weeks will bring.

Good thing, I will go to Istanbul for a business trip for a few days by the end of the month and my boss agreed to pay the hotel for the weekend as well, so there's a small vacation included. I'm very excited since I've never been in Turkey before. And I've never been on a business trip before either.

My old cell phone is quite old and is expected to fall apart any minute. No, it's actually not that bad, but I wanted a new one. There was one from Nokia that I really wanted. But Nokia isn't very popular in Germany these days (after getting high subsidiaries from the government and now closing a big plant in Germany and firing thousands of people). After Linux runs like a charm on both my workstation and my laptop, I decided to give it a try on my cellphone as well. So I bought an American brand that runs embedded Linux. Motorola. It's already ordered, but hasn't been delivered yet. But I can't wait to get it...

Last week was "Election day". It was about voting the president of the managing board of our gay newspaper. Although I expected it, I'm glad I was elected again for president with no dissentient. I guess I didn't do too bad so far...

Tuesday, February 12, 2008

Happy Blogoversary, Rian!

Two years ago from today I decided to re-start my old German blog again in English. While I was an avid writer in the first year, I had hardly any time for my blog in the second year.

In most of my posts I'm apologizing for not having enough time, and it hasn't changed since then. Readers came and went. But there are still some people that stop by on a regular basis, and most of them I really like. Not in a way like I love a partner, but I care about their lives and I think about them and read their blogs regularly.

It makes me sad I can't spend more time in Blogotopia, because I really enjoyed it, and I would love to bond more with some special people on my blogroll. I hope there will be more time soon.

Hugs to all my readers that still stop by from time to time, and a big THANK YOU!

Monday, January 07, 2008

Exorcism. Or: Not the Best Day For Microsoft

I'm so happy right now. I bought a brand new laptop today and I really love it. It had Windows VistaTM installed, of course, but after my experiences with VistaTM on my desktop PC, I didn't even wanted to bother with it. So currently I'm expelling Vista and replace it with my new best friend: Linux. My desktop PC works so perfectly well with Linux, so I decided there won't be anything else for me in the future.

At about the same time, my friend Julia messaged me. She got a new laptop today herself. Funny coincidence, isn't it? She and VistaTM met for the first time. She messaged me to tell me how much VistaTM sucks. Like I never said it before.

Does Microsoft realize that VistaTM isn't doing them any favor?

Tuesday, January 01, 2008

Happy New Year!

Yeah, I'm in 2008 already. You guys in America will have to wait for at least another 6 hours before you arrive here. But I'll wait for you!

I'm sorry I hadn't had much time lately for reading other blogs and commenting. But I hope it'll get better. But (and that's no lie) I'm thinking of many of you regularly, and I'm often wondering how you're doing.

So, here's a BIG HUG from the German guy to all my loyal readers. I hope you all will have an excellent year 2008!
 
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